tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75235284058715678452024-03-13T23:50:57.364+08:00cyndorkCyndihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03633864939108256199noreply@blogger.comBlogger353125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7523528405871567845.post-77503461567896558302020-01-28T20:47:00.004+08:002020-01-28T20:47:59.476+08:00What does Success mean to you? I've always thought that success means that you had to have the nicest car, the biggest house, heaps of friends, wealthy, respected and had a lot of power.<br />
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To me, success equals making a positive difference in other people's lives that won't negatively affect other people's lives. I've never been able to associate success with wealth, power or how famous you are. I don't like chasing after money as I think money shouldn't have so much power over your happiness and working in Marketing I can understand that being famous is all appearances and publicity and what you show to people when you could be miserable inside. Success for me means happiness and what makes me happy? When my actions are making a positive difference to other people's lives - which is why I love when I get to directly speak one on one with the students living at Campus Perth and being able to talk to the Hostel guests and reading their reviews on how our company has been able to support their journey through life. Having these positive insights into what my actions do to other people make me so happy and motivate me more to do better.<br />
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Another thing which makes me happy is being passionate about causes and standing up for what I believe in. I truly believe in women's rights, racial and gender equality and being able to argue and read up on them and being able to make a difference towards these issues make me so happy! That, to me, is what success means to me. Being contently happy with what you've achieved and what your goals are.Cyndihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03633864939108256199noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7523528405871567845.post-4651537008850596262020-01-12T18:51:00.001+08:002020-01-12T18:51:25.051+08:0010 Lessons I learnt in 2019Summarising an entire year into one blog post is pretty hard especially considering the fact that my memory and concentration has been failing me and been absolutely down the drain lately. I can hardly remember what I did yesterday let alone an entire year (thanks depression!). I can, however, put it into five quick & easy bullet points which actually makes it easier for both you - and me - to read and write down.<br />
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I note that I haven't posted since 2018 when I first accepted my current full-time job, and time has essentially just flown by. Looking back on my last post makes me kind of melancholic as that post still resonates to me and what I learnt back then I'm still trying to really process now. I actually think that perhaps 2018 me seemed way wiser than current me now.<br />
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I haven't found a hobby I truly enjoy yet, it's still a work in progress, sadly, but I hope I'll get there in the end. In the meantime, I do have five striking points on what I learnt in the year 2019 (one of the worst years of my life mentally, physically and development & growth-wise). I feel like I've learnt nothing and progressed nothing but at the same time have learnt so much? Does that even make sense? Ok, here we go:<br />
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I think ultimately this year I've learnt that people come and go out of your lives for a reason. Time doesn't stay still for everyone and you for sure need to have bad times in your life to fully appreciate the good. 2018 was such a good year for me - I got everything I wanted at the time (or so I thought...) and got to make friends with some rad people. 2019 was the absolute shithole of a year. Friends leaving, burnt out by work, self-confidence and self-esteem was down the drain. I even went on holiday to JAPAN which I have been looking forward to visiting for my entire life and was absolutely MISERABLE (??). So I've learnt that there's always going to be bad to balance out the good. </div>
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<li>Relationships are a lot more complicated than I thought (but I learnt a lot)</li>
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I was involved in an intimate relationship this year that went on longer than it should have and it was a very complicated relationship because I didn't understand it and sucked at communicating properly with what I wanted and needed. Relationships, in general, are super layered and I don't know where to even start or how to explain it. What I thought I knew about relationships completely don't even align with what I thought last year and I've been an absolute shit show about it. I don't know if it's because I've been really depressed this past year or what but it's like I remember a past life where I was able to build relationships and intimacy and now I just can't. It's not possible for me anymore.<br />
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I think for me on relationships I've also learnt that you need to know yourself first and get to love yourself before being in a relationship just so you know exactly what you want from it and what you can give back. I would also then add that even if you are in a relationship - don't lose your sense of self, your hobbies, what your passions are because they are what make you uniquely you and if you surround your whole life around a singular person, it makes it hard on the other person to cater to your needs and it's not a healthy relationship.<br />
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Note to self to really work on yourself, your health, fitness, goals and aspirations so you can get what you want in life. </div>
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I have a hard time with this because I think from this whole year the most important lesson I learnt was that I really don't know myself or who I am. Someone told me I didn't have enough life experience and was still such a small child even in an adult body. It then also relates back to my previous point where you can't get into a relationship without fully knowing who you are or what you want in life. You're in a relationship to make the person happy but you don't even know what makes you happy. So figure it out. This year I hope to be able to figure out exactly what I like and want. </div>
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I've said it once and I'll say it again - humans will never be satisfied. We'll always want more and more. I've come to the realisation that even when I get the things that I thought I wanted, it might not actually always bring me happiness. Stable house and family with kids? Who knows if I really want it or if I've just been conditioned by my parents who expect those kinds of things from me. You've really got to pursue hobbies, passions and things that genuinely make you happy and I'm here for it this year. </div>
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Truths out. 2019 was not my year. I'm hoping to seek a counsellor to get this issue resolved and I hope that will eventually help me get my sense of self back. </div>
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This TED Talk really spoke to me when the speaker, Shawn Achor, mentioned the ripples of positivity. I find this so relevant to my life right now. I was offered a job - finally - after almost 2 years of applying for jobs and attending interviews and this was after I had started my new job at a coffeeshop where I established a routine.
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However, even after being offered a job after almost 2 years of failure - the initial happiness of success wears off. Having a great job (even though I haven't even started yet) isn't the key to happiness; I still wake up in bed crying over the loss of my dear Chocolate and listening to certain songs make me tear up and cry in the car. Getting an amazing job just doesn't mean you'll automatically be happy. I am the happiest when I'm spending time with my friends, family and dog.
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Having the responsibility of a job just means that I'll be able to use those experiences and skills to increase my financial situation. To be able to allow me to be financial stable and secure in my life. What this means in the end? It will allow me the freedom to pursue my dreams and hobbies...So what I really need to do now is find a hobby I enjoy. Cyndihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03633864939108256199noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7523528405871567845.post-33168378532205618072017-11-10T20:43:00.000+08:002017-11-10T20:43:38.438+08:00ChocoI miss you.<br />
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I miss the way your tail wags and hits me in the face while your butt wiggles because you wag it so hard. I miss the way you would just lie down on the edge of my bed or curl up right next to my leg. I miss the way you would get up when I got up. I miss the way you would grab a toy and show it off to us when we came back home as a little present. You'd carry the toy and walk like you were in a beauty contest and it made us laugh so much. I miss the way your butt would wiggle in the air and you'd have your head on your paws and look up at us.<br />
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I miss your cute little white paws and the way you'd give it to me when I asked for 'hand' or when I would ask you to beg and you'd place them together to beg for your food. I miss the paws that held onto the bones we gave you whether it be the Smackos bone or the pork bones you loved so much.<br />
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I miss the times you'd follow me everywhere or just check up on me. I even miss the times you'd just sit on top of the sofa and look out of the window. I miss your face in the window watching us come back home and wagging your tail. Sometimes we'd see your face - other times you'd go into our rooms. I miss seeing you lying down on my bed and just wagging your tail when I turned on the light and seeing you wagging your tail on the edge of my bed. I miss you cleaning up my plate. I miss waking up in the morning and finding that you were curled up sleeping right next to my face, my legs, on the edge of my bed, underneath my bed covers when it was Winter. I miss getting woken up by you early in the morning telling me to pick you up onto the bed.<br />
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I miss the sounds of your paws in the house. I miss your barking. I miss your howling. I miss the nagging sounds you'd make to tell us to do something - letting you out, letting you back inside, 'take me out for walkies,' picking you up on the bed. I miss your face out the car window and your smiling face. I miss your face. I miss your perfectly white and aligned teeth. I miss you sticking out your tongue. I miss seeing you so hyper. I miss you jumping everywhere and going back on forth just to get up on the sofa. I miss how your ears perk up. I miss playing with you - tug of war, training you, feeding you. You made us all so happy. I miss the touch of your fur and body. I miss massaging you.<br />
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I miss seeing how happy you were after the park. I miss you wiping your nose on my mat. I miss you just running so free across the grass fields. I miss the way you'd communicate with dogs and jump everywhere. I miss the way you pee and poop. I miss the way you'd follow me everywhere. I miss your face when I hide away from you. I miss the way you freak out when you can't find me and run away. I miss the way you loved us more than other people. I miss how loyal you were and how you showed us how much you loved us. I miss your growls. I miss you jumping. I miss how obedient and intelligent of a dog you were. I miss giving you belly rubs. I miss you in my car and going back and forth between the windows. I miss seeing you eat the food I cook for you. I miss cooking for you and making your food. I miss dressing you up in clothes. I miss the way you would avoid the beach water at all costs but loved going to the beach. I miss seeing you sunbathe on the grass and go exploring the backyard.<br />
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I miss you always checking up on me and Mandy. I'm sorry for always annoying you and making you scared. I miss your sleeping face. I miss your big dark brown eyes. I miss your puppy eyes. I miss you licking my face. I miss you licking me.Cyndihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03633864939108256199noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7523528405871567845.post-7047555000604425352017-06-03T01:55:00.001+08:002017-06-03T01:55:47.271+08:00Quarter Life Crisis<blockquote class="tr_bq">
<i>Common symptoms of a quarter life crisis are often feelings of being "lost, scared, lonely or confused" about what steps to take in order to transition properly into adulthood. Studies have shown that unemployment and choosing a career path is a major cause for young persons to undergo stress or anxiety. Early stages of one living on their own for the first time and learning to cope without parental help can also induce feelings of isolation and loneliness. Re-evaluation of one's close personal relationships can also be a factor, with sufferers feeling they have outgrown their partner or believing others may be more suitable for them.</i></blockquote>
Am I perhaps going through a quarter life crisis right now? I'd consider myself pretty lucky in the fact that I found a job pretty quickly after graduating high school and was working while my friends were still looking for jobs. However, now that I've been unemployed for a bit and living off savings, on the verge of graduating with a bachelor's degree, and labelled a millennial with no prospect of owning a house anytime soon - I feel completely and utter <i>'lost, scared, lonely AND confused.' </i><br />
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I feel like being away from home and taking up the Disney International Program had some negatives but I feel like it prepped me up big time in being able to answer questions such as 'Will I be able to survive living by myself/paying rent/cooking for myself/doing laundry?' The answer is yes. I survived and I experienced firsthand what it felt like having roommates, working full-time hours, coming back home from work and having to cook for yourself and budgeting so that you would have enough money to pay for rent - all without the help of my family who were on the other side of the globe and offered no extra financial support apart while I was in Orlando. I did it and I overcame the loneliness.<br />
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As of right now, my major life crisis springs its focus on my career prospects and the fogginess of the future regarding how I'm going to spend the rest of my adulthood years. Unemployment and career paths definitely do give me a lot of stress and unnecessary anxiety when all I want to do in life is aim to be happy but I've soon realised that I can't even be happy without the basic, necessary funds to feel comfortable. I can't be happy when I keep comparing myself to my close peers who seem like they all know what the future holds for them but I'm kept back from achieving anything significant and still my future is seemingly covered by a heavy cloud.<br />
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I think the first step would be to plan everything out but I've always been more of a go with the flow kind of person and it's exciting to see where this has taken my life. I think my best abilities as of now is being able to express myself, write with passion and being able to persuade people. I hope I can persuade recruiters and potential network of people my ability to be able to get the work required of me to above their standards. Just like how all amazing marketing should be - exceeding people's expectations. I hope I can do that because I love to set people's expectations of me so low that that I end up exceeding people's expectations.Cyndihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03633864939108256199noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7523528405871567845.post-5604047944036269072017-05-24T19:44:00.000+08:002017-06-25T00:28:23.881+08:00MIISHKA: A (Free) Lesson on Conflict ManagementEdit:// Felt like this was a very relevant article: http://www.digitalmarketer.com/pokemon-go-community-management-mistakes/<br />
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Growing up in the age of technology surely has a lot of benefits and allows me to engage in thought-provoking and interesting discussions, read and engage in a lot of interesting articles and information. On the downside (or upside depending on how you see it), you're exposed to a lot of unacceptable behaviour and attitudes you wouldn't have access to before thanks to easy accessibilities to smartphones, tablets and cameras that can capture these unethical, prejudiced and racist moments.<br />
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Today, the world is becoming less tolerant of racist behaviour (thank God!) and in an age where information is so easily accessible it is no excuse for people to be so uneducated and culturally unaware. There is Google and YouTube and so many news resources for you to look into. I learnt all about the Iambic Pentameter for English class through YouTube - it was amazing and hopefully the education system will change to keep up with the changing technological times.<br />
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However, that's not what I want to focus on. My post today is on an Australian vintage online store based in Melbourne called Miishka. Yesterday I came across<a href="https://www.facebook.com/ainhile/posts/10213288963038961" target="_blank"> this post </a>my friend tagged me in on Facebook where they were culturally appropriating the Vietnamse Ao Dai and other Asian dresses that hold cultural significance.<br />
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Basic gist of an Ao Dai (from Wikipedia) - it's a national dress worn by Vietnamese people usually for weddings and tea ceremonies but can also be uniforms. Basically it's a dress for special occasions similar to the Chinese and their cheong-sam, Japanese with their kimonos and yukatas and Koreans with hanboks.<br />
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Here's a complete 401, ELI5, Culture 101 lesson for you and everyone else that doesn't want to have the term 'racist' on their forehead.<br />
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By the way, if you didn't want to educate yourselves now you can (thank you 2 second search on Google):<br />
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So guys, here is a traditional and beautiful Ao Dai (took me 3 minutes to search, look up images and save these):</div>
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Now here is how Miishka culturally appropriated it and sold it for AUD$95 under the name of "Azure Oriental Tunic Dress": </div>
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Going for '<b>Vintage 90s Azure Vietnamese Dress</b>' would have done the same thing without any offense given. Or even '<b>Vintage 90s Azure Asian Slit Dress</b>' if you couldn't be fucked doing any research or asking any Asian group if they'll be offended. But nah, lets use 'Oriental Tunic Dress.' </div>
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Secondly, the slit. I have so many words to say on how wrong showcasing a national dress in a mere sexual and tacky way is to the Asian community. It further endorses the belief that Asian people can be fetishised and Asian women can be sexualised. You may not see it that way but search up Asian costumes on Google and you'll soon see what I mean. I can't be bothered doing this homework for you because it's disgusting. Also notice how traditionally the way to wear Ao Dai's is with pants underneath.</div>
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Third of all, I noticed from the post, comments and Instagram that Miishka were quick to block, delete and report instead of first of all apologising, responding to criticisms and learning why they had offended so many people. </div>
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Here are each of the steps that Miishka could've taken to avoid this whole conflict in the first place - if they had at least done any of these steps the whole controversy wouldn't have blown up to the size it is now: </div>
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<li>1. Educate yourself edit:// even more on diverse social issues and surround yourself with different belief and values</li>
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<li>3. Don't culturally appropriate</li>
<li>4. Don't sell and market national Asian dresses as 'Oriental' or any other offensive, racist term</li>
<li>5. Don't get a white person to model an Asian piece and especially a cultural piece (this will piss people off no matter what even if you're not culturally appropriating and naming it the correct term)</li>
<li>6. Don't style and model it so provocatively (Commerce student thoughts: you could've sold a pants or shorts item underneath...damn.. missed opportunity)</li>
<li>7. Stop deleting, blocking and reporting comments in general (censoring people) - angry people need to vent and rant and if they can't do it on your platform then they're taking it elsewhere with 10x the angry react</li>
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<li>9. Actually listen to why people are offended, angry and why you're getting backlash </li>
<li>10. Actions speak louder than words </li>
<li>11. Don't make yourselves out to be the victims - people are angry they don't give a shit that you were abused or threatened...you hurt them first, you started this conversation. </li>
<li>12. Don't put out a general 'sorry we got caught. sorry you're butthurt' insincere apology</li>
<li>13. Don't put out an apology that doesn't address any of the issues directly. "Particular community" "This piece" "Similar items" "deep appreciation" "Celebrate the beautiful uniqueness of everyone" (Angry Asian Lady thoughts: Your whole facebook, instagram and tumblr feed only fits into a small minority of what you think is "unique" aka pretty, skinny, white, women ... ) </li>
<li>14. Don't pull a pepsi with a 'love solves everything' </li>
<li>15. Don't act like an apology automatically solves everything</li>
<li>16. Actions speak louder than words - how are you going to solve this? did you ask the offended how you could reverse the damage? did you try to understand what you did wrong? why did i take the items off the shelf? </li>
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<br />Cyndihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03633864939108256199noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7523528405871567845.post-3373525882201810122017-03-22T17:18:00.000+08:002017-03-22T17:18:26.567+08:00An OutsiderI was reading an article today about how they were almost about to cast Lewis Tan as the leading role of Iron Fist as Danny Rand but ultimately gave the role to the white guy in the show. Here is the article: <a href="http://www.gamesradar.com/meet-the-asian-american-actor-marvel-seriously-considered-for-iron-fist/" target="_blank">http://www.gamesradar.com/meet-the-asian-american-actor-marvel-seriously-considered-for-iron-fist/ </a><br />
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Lewis Tan, is half white and half Asian, an American born in England. In the article they quote him on saying that he understood how it felt to be an outsider both in Asia and in America. I resonated well with that as I understood how it felt and I feel as if being mixed race there were even be more of an identity crisis.<br />
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I remember my friend, whose half white and half filipino, telling me that when she's in Australia she's Asian but when she's in the Philipines she's white. It's like she doesn't belong in either places she's part of and can you just imagine how confusing that would've been for her when she was younger?<br />
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Hey Orange Apple, your comment meant no harm at all, but I feel like I just need to inform you and help you understand what this 'whole outsider thing' is about.<br />
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While I can't speak on behalf of mixed race people as I feel as if their experiences would somehow be completely different to mine but I can speak on behalf of my own experiences. <br />
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As Lewis has said, there's no more of an outsider than an Asian-American. What he means is that as an Asian who grew up in a Western country - we're told constantly that we don't belong even though we may dress the same, act the same, and speak the same way as our white peers. We simply just don't look the same and so people don't accept us as just a normal citizen of America/Australia/Europe.<br />
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We have people telling us to speak English when we speak our mother tongue and when we do speak English we have people telling us that our English is really good and asking us where we're really from.<br />
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When Lewis mentions that we feel like outsiders when we're at home. I can bring up a story my friend, who is Asian but has only ever lived in Australia and hasn't been to her mother country before. She told me she felt disconnected to her grandparents because she can't communicate with them as they don't understand English. She feels disconnected with other Asians because she can't relate. She doesn't even like Pho. Yet constantly, again and again, she has people asking her where she's from and they don't believe her when she says the honest truth that she's from Australia.<br />
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My experiences are a bit similar when I go back to Hong Kong to visit my extended family. I can't communicate with them. There's just a big cultural difference in how we live our lives. They see me and start talking Cantonese with me but I can't piece the words together as eloquently as I would like and I end up sounding like a 5 year old child. They way we do things over there are different and even my FOB friends call me the ABC of the group and list out the ways in which I do things differently.<br />
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There's just no winning for us and I don't see this kind of thing changing anytime soon. The other way in which I see a slight change is when people point these things out and educate people on what it means to be considered an outsider.<br />
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A lot of controversy surrounded Ghost in the Shell also and a lot of the arguments they used was that it was a film for Americans so of course they would use American actors and actresses. When people use this argument, it irritates me so much because this is another way in which people see other non-white Americans as outsiders. They're not Americans - is what they're simply saying. They can't cast an Asian-American actress as Motoko Kusanagi - it's either got to be a white American actress or a Japanese actress. Asian Americans are never considered.<br />
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Cyndihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03633864939108256199noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7523528405871567845.post-83698661606549672252017-02-22T17:42:00.000+08:002017-02-22T18:58:54.549+08:00being asian australianGrowing up as an Asian-Australian, I had to deal with people throwing racist remarks at not just me but hearing about it from my parents and my sister and how upset and helpless they felt when being attacked.<br />
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Growing up Asian-Australian meant that my life would be completely different to the lives of Asians growing up in predominantly and homogenous countries like the city I'm from - Hong Kong - they wouldn't need to deal with being oppressed or being discriminated against just because of the colour of their skin.<br />
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Growing up Asian-Australian meant that for most of my life I had an identity crisis and going to a predominantly-white Christian-religion school did not help. I remember coming back from Hong Kong and being at school and trying to share my culture and what I had learnt from being overseas to my friends and they told me I had changed and became more Asian. Like it was a bad thing.<br />
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I had an identity crisis over how I should act and dress and I tried to hide my culture because it didn't fit in with this particular society's standards. There was only one way of doing things and if I didn't do things their way I was considered 'different' and 'weird'<br />
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I was labelled weird throughout the majority of my high school life and it was me not understanding that I needed to have dual personalities to fit in - the one at home and the one outside of home and sometimes the one I had in front of white people.<br />
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Growing up Asian-Australian meant that I wanted to learn about my culture but there was nothing here to learn from. Nobody talked about it and there were hardly any history books about Chinese history or culture. Even if there were - it was either all in Chinese or from a Western point of view.<br />
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Even now, being Asian-Australian and coming over to Australia before I even turned 1 - I still get people asking me where I'm really from, where my parents are from, if I'm really from Australia and telling me that I speak English really well...for an Asian. They start asking me questions about China that I don't even know the answers to. I want to embrace my culture but the culture I've ever really known is Australian culture.<br />
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I've been in Australia my whole life but to them, I'm not Australian. I hardly know anything about China or Hong Kong because where am I supposed to get any of this information from other than my parents and Google? The only thing the white education system has ever taught me about history was it's Aboriginal Australians, World War 1 & 2 and the gold rush where they completely missed out on how they attacked the Chinese.<br />
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2016 was such an important year for me. I've learnt so much and heard stories from people of different races and backgrounds. Listening to stories about what it's like to be African-American, Latina and a Muslim haunts me to this day and watching all these documentaries has educated me so much about the world and so I've decided that 2017 will be the year that I will stand up for my beliefs and core values without even caring about what people think of me or if I offend them because people have already offended me enough already.Cyndihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03633864939108256199noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7523528405871567845.post-38116039739473340432017-01-31T02:35:00.000+08:002017-02-22T17:47:12.073+08:00Pro ChoiceI went to a Christian school and what this means is basically that our sex education was short, sweet and incredibly one sided. The gist of our 'education' is that we had to wait to have sex after marriage otherwise our lives would be ruined and our options are cut - that we won't have a successful life and that life will be a struggle after having sex.<br />
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They didn't tell us that there were other options. There was only one option - don't have sex. The worst part was that they separated the genders up so that females were in one room for sex education while the males were in another room for sex education. We didn't even received the so called education until we were around 15 years of age. It's just ridiculous looking back now on how my religious school has failed us so hard. </div>
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I want you and everyone to know that there are options - there are options beyond pregnancy or even options before sex. There are contraceptives. Your life doesn't just end there after getting pregnant. You should be able to choose for yourself. It is your life and your body and nobody should be taking these basic human rights to CHOOSE from you. I so strongly believe in educating both men and women in sexual education in all forms and I am so passionate about having the ability to choose what you do with your life FOR YOURSELF. You should be able to have the option to keep the baby or have the option to abort it. </div>
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Do you understand or even know why abortions even take place? It's not only just because they happened to fall pregnant after having sex - it can be so many other reasons.<br />
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I just cannot wrap my head around the reason why people would want to barge their way into somebody else's business in regards to a person's body. I've read and heard people wanting to keep the baby but what happens to the baby THAT NOBODY WANTED IN THE FIRST PLACE? It's a destructive cycle. The child is left unloved in a world that's already broken. The adoption process is difficult and numbing for the child who goes from home to home. Nobody should have to go through the process of foster care when so many people cheat the system and are in it for the money instead of actually looking after the child. It's a never-ending cycle. </div>
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We should be educating both our sons and daughters. Men and women. Into proper sexual reproductive education and how our bodies work. I've always wondered why we need to pay sanitary tissues. They're not even that cheap either. Why is something so necessary and part of every single woman's life (a necessity) not free? Why do people give out condoms for free but not sanitary pads? I don't understand how this works. </div>
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<br />Cyndihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03633864939108256199noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7523528405871567845.post-32474810599041715762016-05-15T16:53:00.001+08:002016-05-15T16:54:46.238+08:00Updated Skincare Routine (2016)<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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Recently I've been investing heaps into my skincare routine as my skin has been breaking out heaps and is super bumpy due to millions of whiteheads and blackheads popping up everywhere. I've developed my own 'Korean' 8-step-skincare routine with these products!<br />
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I just use the Etude House Baking Powder cleanser and to be honest, I'm not in love with it but it gets the job done and it smells quite nice. It leaves my face feeling clean.<br />
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I used to use the JUJU AQUAMOIST Cleansing Oil which I absolutely love but decided to try out the Banila Co. Clean it Zero cleansing balm as I heard a lot of good reviews about it. Didn't realise it came in such a huge tub and is totally worth the money as I've had it for a couple of months and barely made a dent. I use it to double cleanse and it smells amazing but I'm not sure if it's because I'm not using it right but it still leaves a lot of balm residue on my face even when I've washed it off.<br />
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The Etude House Serum is amaziiiinnngggg!!! It does such a great job and definitely locks in the pores to make them smaller.<br />
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For the longest time ever, I've had so much trouble looking for a good moisturiser for my skin. My family has been recommending me these moisturisers when I go back to Hong Kong but then I can never find them when I go back to Perth so I'm always left with a really sucky moisturiser as I don't know which moisturiser here does the same job as the Hong Kong brand moisturisers. Then I discovered the Body Shop Seaweed Mattifying moisturiser and IT IS SO GOOD!<br />
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Not only does it moisturise my face and leaves it feeling smooth and supple but it takes care of my oily T-zone so I don't wake up in the morning feeling an oily mess (which most moisturisers I used did). It also has a slight tingling sensation as well which the sales assistant told me was normal.<br />
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The sales assistant at the Body Shop also recommended I purchase the exfoliator as I told her I had a lot of whiteheads and she said it was probably from the build up from my dry skin and dead skin cells as I wasn't exfoliating my face and getting rid of the dead skin cells. After using the exfoliator I noticed that a lot of the bumps started disappearing and they would come up to the surface and form pimples and then disappear! I was so glad as the bumps were so unappealing. </div>
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Still in the process of looking for more masks to try as I absolutely love masks! Recently purchased the Body Shop's Aloe Vera Soothing Cream Overnight Mask as Winter is coming and my skin gets more dry during the winter time. This mask smoothes my sensitive cheek area which is really dry and I can leave it on overnight and my skin feels absolutely amazing in the morning. </div>
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My friend gave me this sunscreen spray puff from the Face Shop where you pump the sunscreen onto the puff and pat it onto the skin like a cushion foundation. It also has a cooling sensation and has 50 SPF and PA++++ which is so good! I love it/would repurchase again. <br />
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The environment has always been a stressing issue and a huge reason why I love the Lorax by Dr. Seuss. There's a good quote from a Chinese film I watched recently, The Mermaid, and one of the characters asks the main character a really good question:<br />
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We're depleting the Earth of oxygen and water all for the sake of money. What happens once we've gotten our money? Money isn't important anymore when the Earth is damaged because of it. You won't be able to breath or drink clean water and then your health suffers and making money was for nothing because of it. </div>
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We are a circle of life and so is the environment. We are born, we grow up and die and turn into soil. The trees grow from the soil, then give out clean oxygen for us to breathe. We all learn about where water comes from right? Water comes from rain water, then it falls to the ground, the soil soaks it up and the water goes back into the ocean and the clouds evaporate it and then the clouds make it rain. </div>
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The reason why there is less rain water is because the clouds are taking less in less water from the oceans! The reason why there is less water in the oceans is because there isn't enough water in the ground. The reason why there isn'ts enough water in the ground is because the roots of the trees aren't there anymore to push the water into the ground. The roots of the trees are getting removed because we're removing the forests to build houses and infrastructure established by big companies that care more about money than the environment! They don't care about us - they're rich and they can just buy bottled water. </div>
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Cyndihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03633864939108256199noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7523528405871567845.post-74664658217054454882016-03-07T15:04:00.001+08:002016-03-07T15:04:07.149+08:00What I Learnt Last Year/ New Years ResolutionI know it's pretty late into the 'new' year (it's March already..what) but instead of creating a New Years Resolution I wanted to create a post about the many things I learnt last year and wanted to reflect on the many things that have moulded me into the person I am as of right now and have a mini resolution at the same time.<br />
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Coming back from travelling, I always tend to learn something new and exciting - culturally mostly and geographically - but this year it really opened up my eyes.<br />
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1. <b>Chinese Identity</b><br />
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E.g. America, where everyone seemed to idolise and see as the 'Great American United States wow land of the free and celebrities.' However, I saw it differently when I came back. I learnt to really appreciate how so many immigrants and families sacrificed their life in their hometown for their children's future and for a better life even though the first couple of years moving to this new and foreign country were probably the worst years of their lives. They can't speak English, they don't know anyone, they're struggling financially and they have to look after their children. Who are they supposed to rely on?<br />
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So many people moved over to America for a better life and before, I never learnt to appreciate those kinds of things. I actually felt kind of embarrassed ~ like why can't my parents act more westernised? We're living in Australia - learn to adapt to the Australian life. But it's difficult for them. Their sense of belonging and identity belongs to a certain group and they feel like they belong to this group and thats why having a Chinatown in San Francisco was so important to them. It was a place where they belonged and they'd honestly be lost without a community like that.<br />
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My Aunty, who can't speak English but is the most outgoing person I know, blended in so well with the people in Chinatown even though she was so worried about not speaking English well in America. She just talked to strangers on the buses, trains, planes and even learnt about someone's background in San Francisco. Everyone's just kind of blending in and living their life - everyone is the main character in their life.<br />
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Coming back from America has made me realised that there are so many people whom I share a similar identity and position with and I think that was a really big eye opener for me.<br />
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<b>2. Australia is the best</b><br />
Honestly, Australia is the best. I take back whatever I said about moving to America when I grow up. I'm staying in Australia until I find a better place to call home. The houses are nice, the transportation is OK - but the public transport is easy to navigate through, the weather and beaches are nice. NO TAXES. NO TIPPING. No severe traffic. Whatever, screw you all Australia's the best in my eyes.<br />
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<b>3. Skincare and Health first</b><br />
Never thought I'd be so envious of so many people until I went to Hong Kong and everywhere I went all the girls had such nice skin and beautiful, crystal clear complexions. I am in awe. This year, I am going to focus on improving my skin complexion and less on purchasing makeup which will just make my skin worse than it already is. Even though I'm a makeup junkie :(<br />
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Another aspect is that I need to improve my overall health and fitness. I need to exercise more and stop eating so much unhealthy food. My cousin in San Francisco walks everywhere and their roads are so steep and slopey! I was out of breath already not even halfway through and we had to take the bus back because I couldn't deal. Australia's roads are so flat so it's not even that difficult and yet I still drive everywhere!<br />
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There are honestly so many people on this Earth it's unbelievable. Every single person is a main character in their life. Especially when I went to China and around just the California state. There are so many people on this Earth and I can't believe that there are enough resources for so many people. Does it ever occur to you that water, food, air will run out? Where are all these resources coming from? I went to so many buffet places this year and each time I just thought - the sashimi, the oysters, the fruit, the poultry - it's all going to run out someday right? How in the world do they have such an unlimited supply of fresh seafood and fruit?<br />
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Some people earn their income from working, some earn it from their own business and just everybody is working hard to make a living and it made me think about the type of life I want to have in the future more.<br />
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You honestly only live once and there is no going back. You can't rewind time you can only look onwards that's why choices and the decisions you make are so important. I have always known this but I never understood the importance behind this aspect but now I know the true, utter importance of time. There is absolutely no way I can go back to last week to change whatever I wanted to do. Each second is important and I could've been spending it working and earning money or studying but I didn't - I don't and I really should this year. Instead of staying at home - I can volunteer, go out and catch up with friends, join a club or class or work on my health. Each second and minute is valuable time and we all only have a limited lifespan and I'm going to spend each second like it's truly my last.<br />
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<br />Cyndihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03633864939108256199noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7523528405871567845.post-27239991623005354052015-12-29T15:27:00.002+08:002015-12-29T15:27:55.321+08:00just take it<center>
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Cyndihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03633864939108256199noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7523528405871567845.post-37084576242322918982015-11-19T17:23:00.001+08:002015-11-19T17:23:44.032+08:00Take chances, Have no Regrets<blockquote class="tr_bq">
Life is too short to be anything but happy.<br />
So kiss slowly, love deeply and forgive quickly.<br />
Take chances, give everything, have no regrets and forget the bad in the past.<br />
Just remember what all it taught you.<br />
Just be someone else. Life is too short to be someone else.</blockquote>
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If there's really one thing I've learnt (but have yet to implement in life) is that life is too short to not be crazy and too short to be anyone else but YOU! Take risks, go after whatever you want, why shouldn't you deserve what's been given to you? Jump through those obstacles to reach your goals and achieve what you want in life. Life is way too short and fast-paced to go day by day without doing something productive.Cyndihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03633864939108256199noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7523528405871567845.post-58314616848954002542015-11-07T01:38:00.002+08:002015-11-07T01:38:35.595+08:00Social Media and Self EsteemHello my little porcupines!<br />
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In the midst of study plus exam week I thought I would shove in a blog post before I have way too much free time and forget to write out my sad and sensitive feelings again. I feel like I blog about myself too much so maybe I'll just talk about something else other than myself and my life is so boring and hasn't changed much at all.<br />
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First things first - social media. Social media is a marketing tool for businesses but it started out as a medium for people to interact with one another. I think when we think of social media these days the first thing that pops up is usually Facebook or Instagram and I think those two are predominantly two social media platforms in which I use the most. While Facebook is proper, professional and more for friends; Instagram is a platform in which I can explore and interact with people around the world and also show off my creative side which Facebook is lacking. I remember being so obsessed with my Myspsce profile as it was a way to show off my personality and artistic influences and tried to make it represent me. To summarise really - I probably spent way too much time editing my MySpace profile when I could've been doing something more productive.<br />
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Which reminds me of the Instagram model - Essena O'Neil - I think the main points she makes where social media is portraying a fake life and not everything is not as perfect as they want you to believe it to be are such valid points. How many times have I seen a photo on Instagram and been like 'I wish I had her life' 'I wish I had her body' 'I wish I had her hair and clothes' when in actuality they've been sponsored and their life isn't as perfect as the extent they made it out to be. However, I honestly draw the line and tell myself that that's her life and this is my life there's honestly no point in comparing and there is nothing I can do about it other than improving myself and striving towards my own goals. Where being social media famous is not one of them and putting myself out there for people to nitpick on my appearance is definitely not one of my goals. I already have enough anxiety over stepping out into the city with so many people around. I think the best thing we can ever do is to be a good person and be a good role model to whoever is looking up to us and don't validate yourself through a strangers opinion of you or how many numbers are behind your brand. It's honestly not worth the stress, effort and self esteem issues associated with it.Cyndihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03633864939108256199noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7523528405871567845.post-10574433348922757102015-10-27T21:52:00.002+08:002015-10-27T21:52:57.710+08:00Just Lots of Wall Art<br />
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Just a little update on my current ~life~ situation where I try to persuade you that I'm a perfectly normal human being of society.<br />
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These past few months have really just been about university and working on assessments plus working as per usual. The past month has been extremely stressful as I was working 4 nights for work and had 3 days of university with no break in between. I was basically working 7 nights for a month straight without a day off or a night to just breathe and relax. It was super stressful but I'm really glad I was determined and persevered - the end result was a blessing in disguise.<br />
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I haven't been able to explore any new exciting restaurants because of working so much but I remember going to the Meatball Bar in Leederville (they're also opening one up in Mount Lawley!) and I can't wait to go back when I have a bit more money to spend. I ordered the Sicilian pork meatballs and it was all that I ever dreamed of. It was spicy meatballs PLUS it had an Eggplant Parmi! What else could a girl want? (Honestly a lot more but this comes pretty close)<br />
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Apart from food, I also love travelling and I'm ecstatic to announce that I will be travelling at the start of next year! I honestly believe that I should have at least one holiday per year. I didn't have one last year and it has been the most stressful year because I've had basically no breaks. I was working two jobs this time last year instead of a holiday and I didn't have a holiday in the middle of the year. Anyways, hopefully we get to travel to four different places - Hong Kong, Guangzhou, San Francisco and Vancouver. Hopefully.<br />
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<br />Cyndihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03633864939108256199noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7523528405871567845.post-75987444282978459832015-07-18T10:30:00.000+08:002015-07-18T10:30:00.948+08:00transportation | a hong kong video diary<div style="text-align: center;">
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Would super appreciate it if you could watch my new video diary! Thank you so much!<br />
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So I was going through my iPhoto images as I wanted to browse through my photos which I took back in 2013/2014 when I went back to Hong Kong (and also visited Taiwan) when I discovered that I actually filmed a lot of videos during my holidays.<br />
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This quickly inspired me to film a video diary like those beautiful ones <a href="https://youtu.be/FAXF0HVO0TU" target="_blank">Zoe Suen</a> puts together. Mines not as good as hers but it was greatly inspired by her video diaries. It took me around 4 hours to put it altogether (including uploading and publishing it) and I am super proud of what I created. Hopefully I can continue improving in the future but I'm so in love with the video's thumbnail. I didn't even specifically choose one - it just came up.<br />
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Thanks for reading/watching!Cyndihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03633864939108256199noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7523528405871567845.post-71184304296728108612015-07-15T19:00:00.000+08:002015-07-15T19:00:02.153+08:001Q84/ Town of Cats<div style="text-align: center;">
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I recently finished 1Q84 the other day. I started it last year and a year later I finally finished it. I did it! I reached the next milestone of my life - it seems. Personally, 1Q84 is so far one of my favourites. I personally even liked it more than the Wind Up Bird Chronicle which <i>was </i>my favourite novel of Murakami's.<br />
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1Q84 was such a roller coaster ride and I'm glad I continued reading it until the very end as I loved the ending so much. I loved the way it is written from the perspective (third person) of Aomame and Tengo and how both worlds slowly collide with each other until you see the same thing from different perspectives. It's such a clever way to write the novel. The more I think about it, the more I fall in love with the whole story. It tackles so many themes and gives new insight into the world surrounding us. I love it so much. I can't wait to dive into Colorless Tsukuru Tazaki and His Years of Pilgrimage!<br />
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I miss the 1Q84 characters already. I wonder what happened to them but they're already of a different world. I wish people would just accept the reality as it is and stop criticising everything. The moment they exited out of the world - it ceased to exist. None of it mattered anymore. They were safe and in a new environment.<br />
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Here are some nice dinner places you can visit around Northbridge!<br />
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<b>Lucky Chan's Laundry + Noodlebar / Northbridge</b></h3>
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I ordered the <b>Danny Ramen ($15.90) </b>with a spiciness of 7/10 (Because I like it hot!) and I liked it! The broth had a nice rich flavour (from the pork mince?), including the corn, meshed well together. I would definitely go back just for the ramen. My friend made a face when I told her there was corn in it and that she would take out the corn but I actually really liked the corn and I don't usually like corn with anything. However, the only problem was, I wasn't completely full. I think if I had a drink and an entree as well as the ramen I would be full. I only had the ramen and some water so I left feeling half full which is better than leaving not full at all I guess.</div>
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My sister ordered the <b>Umami Monster ($14.90)</b> and she mentioned that it tasted like water. So I tried her ramen while she tried mine and we definitely agreed that the broth played a huge part in how good the dishes were. Her's was extremely bland even with all of the ingredients added into in (fried tofu, tomato, wood ear mushrooms and 62 degree egg). I think her's needed a richer broth. </div>
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Tucked away in an extremely popular alleyway is Francoforte Spaghetti Bar. I've passed by it numerous of times while visiting their neighbours Superstar Waffles, Babooshka and Is Donburi but never had the opportunity to try it until now. My friend always put me off it saying that it was expensive but I didn't think it was<i> that</i> expensive. In fact, I really enjoyed the night at Francoforte even if I didn't especially like the Carbonara that I ordered.<br />
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The spaghetti bar was so cute! I loved the interior and how we could see the kitchen. It was so chill I wish we had bought a bottle of wine because it felt like the perfect place to have spaghetti and wine.<br />
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The<b> Guanciale Carbonara ($16 | $22) Grande </b>I ordered had only crispy bacon bits with it and barely any sauce. It tasted so bland and boring towards the end when I was finishing up the plate. The bacon bits were also extremely salty that I just left most of them on the side of my plate. What they did do right was the spaghetti though - the spaghetti was cooked just right. It wasn't too soft or too hard and made the meal much more enjoyable. Also, on the menu it mentioned there was egg - I don't actually remember having egg on mine or at least in the way that I imagined it to be.<br />
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Is blogging the traditional way still a thing anymore? As I've been lacking and I feel like I only post once a month these days. Which is better than nothing I suppose. The above photo is of me - all blue and blurred out - and my friends. I assure you, the whole matching couple colour scheme outfit was totally not planned. It was a complete coincidence. </div>
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I wish all my friends were friends with each other. It would honestly save my bank account. I've had four friends - who aren't friends with each other - try to invite me out for brunch/dinner already. It's so infuriating trying to organise a day, pick which cafe/restaurant to have, set a time and decide who to go with. Then I have to use my money when I'm already in the middle of saving up for a, might I add, much needed vacation! </div>
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Anyways, back to the blog title. I thought I would do one of those monthly reviews again as I deleted it last time as I didn't want people to think I was an actual food reviewing blog. Sorry, I'm not deserving of that title yet. This month + a little bit of April - we mostly went to South of the River. It was such a road trip. I think next month we'll just stick to our favourites and places I haven't been back in ages like Mr. Munchies! </div>
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Went to Harvest Espresso with my sister to try their menu. I ordered the roasted cauliflower while she ordered some pancakes (I think?) I really liked mine! But I wouldn't order it again just because towards the end it was tasting really repetitive and bland. It was just a whole chunk of cauliflower. I wish they had more of that cream as the cauliflower needed more flavouring. The cream was exceptionally nice The nuts and the crisps were a nice touch of texture and flavour. Wish the egg was more cooked as it tasted soggy and the yolk didn't add much flavour :( </div>
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The vegetable slice was slightly cold and that could've been due to the weather so I won't blame them. It was really nice and I would definitely order it again! As was that cappuccino - nice with enough froth. I honestly don't like people who give me a cappuccino with barely any froth. FROTH IS WHERE IT'S AT. Otherwise, I would've just ordered a Flat White. </div>
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Ending this post with a photo of Sarah and I promoting the Shaun the Sheep Movie after we finished watching Pitch Perfect 2! Thanks for reading!! Can't wait to try more places! </div>
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<br />Cyndihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03633864939108256199noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7523528405871567845.post-39749292828661625602015-04-22T01:34:00.002+08:002015-04-22T01:34:31.996+08:00GOALSI've been super unmotivated these past couple of months! I feel like I need to reset and energise myself and I surprised myself by waking up at 6:20 am this morning! I slept at 9pm thanks to pulling an all nighter the night/day before and so I was super tired and sleepy although I needed to study for a mid semester test. However that's all done and dusted!<br />
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I had coffee and a blueberry muffin as soon as I arrived at uni and then started revising for the test. I felt like everything was working out so nicely. I feel motivated to get my life back together and on track again! However, it's already 1am now I should definitely start by going to sleep.<br />
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But before that! Here are some notes for myself for the months ahead:<br />
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<li>Plan for your upcoming exam weeks already. That mid semester test was just a peek of what's coming up ahead. You only have 2 months left! </li>
<li>Work harder and play harder! Don't take so many shifts off. You never end up doing anything productive the whole day anyways. You have the whole of Sunday off anyways. </li>
<li>Choc Block is closing soon. Time to start looking for another job before it's too late!</li>
<li>Socialise effectively and make friends. It doesn't matter if you don't click with them or whether they'll become good friends. Treat them as making connections for in the future. </li>
<li>Honestly, your skin should be perfect by now. You've had 20 years to perfect it.</li>
<li>Start eating healthily. No more junk food like pizza, McDonalds/Hungry Jacks and greasy food.</li>
<li>Spend less time stalking people on Facebook and more time developing your vocabulary by reading novels. (FINISH 1Q84 ALREADY! SO YOU CAN READ COLORLESS TSUKURU TASAKI)</li>
<li>You are so not ready for a relationship. You're immature and inappropriate and so shallow. You won't have anything to talk about together! Also, you have absolutely no time for a relationship at this point in your life. </li>
<li>Travel, travel, travel!!!! </li>
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Cyndihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03633864939108256199noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7523528405871567845.post-46921416960951368502015-03-30T01:34:00.001+08:002015-05-13T09:54:12.059+08:00[RR] DrivingRandom Ramblings about: Driving and Her<br />
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Ever since getting my driver's license, I've realised that so many people really shouldn't be on the roads. The main problem is speeding, not signalling and tailgating.<br />
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Also, can I just say, just because you have a dash cam does not necessarily make you the better driver?! So many car accidents can be prevented if people were just less arrogant and just let people in by slowing down. People make mistakes on road and many of them can be fatal but so much more accidents can be prevented if people were just less aggressive on roads.<br />
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Please stop tailgating me when I'm going the speed limit. Otherwise, move onto the fast lane which is right next to me as I'm usually on the slower lane.<br />
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<br />Cyndihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03633864939108256199noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7523528405871567845.post-16401288749212270682015-03-08T15:56:00.001+08:002017-05-24T21:04:55.838+08:00Be an Eggcellent BenedictSo my GP told me I was depressed and should probably blog out my feelings because I'm keeping too many thoughts inside and not letting it out. So I should start writing out my thoughts more because it's <i>healthy (?)</i> and I'm totally bullshitting this horribly right now.<br />
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I don't know, I just felt like blogging and I've probably completely forgotten what I wanted to talk about but that's possibly the whole point of my blog. No readers. Pressure free - no new content out each week - just whenever and however and whatever I feel like doing.<br />
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So I hung out with my friends this morning which was far too early for my liking. I woke up at like seven am which was even earlier than what I usually wake up for for work. Breakfast was at 9 and I had to leave by 8:30. Did not even get up until 8am. I'm getting so good at not caring about what I look like in the morning and regretting it as soon as I leave the house and realise what my friends are wearing. <b>I THOUGHT IT WAS CASUAL! WHY ARE YOU WEARING A DRESS?! </b>I look like a completely mentally and financially unstable human being compared to you.<br />
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But anyways, breakfast was good. I'm now hungry though - few hours later. I had an affogato. Just finished taking a nap. Caffeine never does its job for me and I desperately need it because I run out of energy so quickly. Which I've found it is largely due to my unhealthy lifestyle of eat, sleep and poop and then eat even more without exercising. I had an eggs benedict. It was delicious. I'm not going to even attempt to make it because I know I'll stuff up the hollandaise sauce.<br />
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So in regards to actual (sort of) intellectual conversation we had today. We discussed about how flipping narrow minded some people are. They've never even heard of the word empathy or the phrase put yourself in someone elses shoes! We all know humans are selfish and why wouldn't we be. It's the only thing we can count on - we came into the world alone and die alone. Humans are so flawed but step around on this Earth and you'll soon realise that we're all social creatures and we all need one another even with our differences. Can people stop being EXTREMELY selfish and just be a tad little bit selfish in the right occassions such as not lending your money to your friend because it is your money. Or perhaps not giving a lift for a family member because you just want to go home as soon as possible! Those are actually reasonable reasons to be selfish. Like its OK. It's ALRIGHT. But when its just not ethical to be selfish and really harms another person - it is not OK.<br />
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I don't know what else to really talk about. The sudden urge to blog just disappeared. THIS IS WHY I NEVER BLOG.<br />
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// Ok I just remembered.<br />
IT IS NOT OK TO FORCE YOUR OPINIONS/BELIEFS/VALUES ONTO OTHER PEOPLE. I don't even care if you want to be a good role model thats completely up to you and how you want to live your life. I respect that. You can do that with your life and be a perfectly good role model. However, don't force that onto me. I'm only twenty but I feel like I haven't even experienced 75% of what life has got to offer me. Getting married right now is the least of my worries. I want to make new friends and travel the world and hang out with my close friends that don't keep me boxed up and respect me. I need mature friends that act their age and I can't deal with people who put me down and just force their opinions down my throat and expect me to act a certain way because thats what they think and feel is right. I don't do that - that's just not me.<br />
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I admit that I'm the type of person that talks about people behind their backs but its really nothing that I wouldn't mind them hearing about from another person. If they found out - I wouldn't deny it because it's what I think of them honestly. I would probably judge someone about their views and create my own personal opinions about it but I wouldn't force you to follow what I believe in and try to pressure you into doing what I think you should do. I'm probably a really bad friend and person and sometimes I think to myself - wow I can't believe I said that. I'm such a horrible friend. It's just one of my big flaws (I think it's actually genetics tbh).<br />
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Ok bye /rant over.<br />
<b><br /></b>Cyndihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03633864939108256199noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7523528405871567845.post-40449153366753428752014-12-31T21:23:00.002+08:002015-01-13T21:52:29.274+08:00Maybe Next Year <center>
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It's once again the last day of the year again. I feel like this year didn't go by as quickly as the other years since it seems like a lot of things occurred this year and it was probably one of the most interesting and eventful years. I learned a lot of life lessons this year and I feel like I'm content being me and accepting that my teenage years will soon be behind me. I'll be 20 in two months. I don't feel 20 though and I guess even when I'm 40 I'll feel like I don't feel 40. I still feel like a teenager trying to take in everything all at once but processing it one piece at a time. </center>
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Can you figure out how I'm feeling right now with all these depressing songs? I'm spending New Years Eve by myself again! I'll probably also be spending New Years Day and Valentines Day by myself again this year too. I hope next year I'll be able to blog more, meet (more) people and dress more fashionably and hopefully get a retailing part time job that I likeeee! </center>
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